Our Kids Play Hockey: 3 Things You Shouldnt Say To Your Kids Before A Game
Episode Description
What you say before the game matters more than you thinkWeve all been there the car ride to the rink, the final words before your child heads into the locker room. You want to motivate them, support them, and set them up for success.But what if some of those well-intentioned phrases are actually doing the opposite?In this episode of Our Kids Play Hockey, Lee, Christie, and Mike flip one of their most popular topics on its head breaking down the top things you should NOT say to your child before they hit the ice and what to say instead. From You need to score today to Dont mess up, these common phrases can create pressure, fear, and overthinking even when they come from a place of love.Instead, the team shares simple, powerful ways to build confidence, encourage teamwork, and help your player step onto the ice feeling free, focused, and ready to compete. In This Episode, We Cover:Why youre the best player out there can backfireThe hidden danger of you need to score todayHow dont language rewires your childs thinkingWhy pressure-based motivation rarely works long-termThe truth about confidence, nerves, and performanceWhat your child actually needs to hear before a gameHow to shift from results-based talk process-based support Key TakeawayYour words shape your childs mindset before they ever step on the ice.The goal isnt to hype them up its to free them up. A Better Pregame MessageI love you no matter what happens out there and I love watching you play.Simple. Powerful. Effective. Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: What NOT to Say Before a Hockey Game (And What to Say Instead) Got a story or something youve said (or heard) at the rink?Email the team at team@ourkidsplayhockey.com theyd love to hear it!#YouthHockey #HockeyParents #SportsParenting #MentalGame #ConfidenceInSports #HockeyDevelopment #ParentingTips #HockeyLife #KidsSports #OurKidsPlayHockeyClick To Text The Our Kids Play Hockey Team!Our Kids Play Hockey is powered by NHL Sense Arena! Trusted by our kids! Trust it with yours! Trusted at the NHL level through youth hockey, Sense Arena uses VR and mixed reality to build hockey IQ, confidence, and decision-making for skaters and goalies at their own pace.And their March offer is huge:50% off an annual plan compared to paying monthly, plus a free hockey training ball, free Green Biscuit, and free shipping.Or go all in with Have A Topic You Want Us To Cover? Let us know!Please Be Sure To Subscribe & Leave A Review For Us On Apple Podcasts, doing so helps our show grow!Follow Us On Social Media:Facebook GroupXInstagramLinkedInYouTube